玩微信的25條社交禮儀，你能做到幾條？句句扎心！

轉(zhuǎn)眼間微信都已經(jīng)存在8年了，從一開始的“某個(gè)app”，現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)成了生活中必不可少的一環(huán)。

現(xiàn)在出門聯(lián)系父母靠微信，看資訊靠微信，連出婚禮的份子錢都可以靠微信，簡(jiǎn)直就是已經(jīng)活在微信里了。

今天我們?yōu)榇蠹冶P點(diǎn)了25條“第一套全國(guó)微信禮儀基礎(chǔ)考試”，一起來看看自己和朋友都得了多少分吧~

01

不要隨便拉新人進(jìn)私密群，拉之前問一下大家。

Don't suddenly add someone new to a private group chat. Ask other members for their consent first.

02

不要隨便把朋友的微信給陌生人。

Don't share your friends' WeChat accounts with strangers.

03

如果你還有某人的微信消息放著沒回復(fù)，不要在回復(fù)前發(fā)朋友圈。

If you left someone's messages unanswered, don't post anything new on Moments before you answer them.

04

不要在朋友圈發(fā)你和別人的對(duì)話截圖，除非先打馬賽克。

Don't post screenshots of your conversations with others on Moments without blurring out the names and photos of the other people involved.

05

偷拍別人的照片別發(fā)朋友圈。

Don't post any photo that you secretly took of someone.

06

不是特別親密的話，不要發(fā)語音，別人不一定能聽，也不一定想聽。

Don't send voice messages to someone you're not close to. They may not be able to listen and may not want to.

07

不要發(fā)60秒的長(zhǎng)語音，也不要發(fā)OK一類的一秒語音。

Don't send a voice message as long as 60 seconds. And don't send a voice message that contains something as short as an "OK".

08

誰先加的微信，誰就應(yīng)該自報(bào)家門。

If you make the move to add someone else, tell them who you are first.

09

不要給別人很久以前的朋友圈點(diǎn)贊，別人會(huì)覺得你在調(diào)查他。

Don't give a thumbs-up to posts that someone put up long time ago. It makes people feel like you're investigating them.

10

不要連續(xù)點(diǎn)贊別人的一堆朋友圈，別人會(huì)覺得你在例行公事。

Don't give a thumbs-up to a bunch of someone's posts in a row. It makes people feel like you're just doing it as a routine.

11

不熟不要打語音電話，打之前要先問問對(duì)方是不是方便。（視頻通話也一樣）

Don't make voice calls to someone who doesn't know you very well. If you do want to make a call, ask them first if it's convenient to do so. （The same goes for video calls.）

12

不要主動(dòng)加朋友的男女朋友的微信。

Don't ask to add a friend's boyfriend or girlfriend.

13

別發(fā)“在嗎”。那是人家的微信，他不在誰在？有正事直接說。

Don't ask someone, "Are you there?"

It's their WeChat account -- of course they are there. If you have something to say, say it.

14

別給微信運(yùn)動(dòng)墊底的人點(diǎn)贊，那不是贊美，是嘲諷。

Don't give a thumbs-up to someone ranked at the bottom of WeChat Exercise. They won't take it as a compliment or encouragement. They'll consider it a sneer.

15

聚會(huì)不要隨便拍視頻，別人不一定想被拍。

Don't shoot videos of others when you hang out with them. They may not want to be in them.

16

長(zhǎng)期不聯(lián)系的人就不要去問有沒有員工優(yōu)惠了。

If you haven't contacted someone in a long time, don't ask them for employee discounts.

17

P圖不要只P自己，也不要把朋友P得太失真。

Don't only do photo editing on yourself in a group photo. And don't edit other people's photos beyond recognition.

18

不要找不熟的人代購(gòu)。

Don't ask someone who doesn't know you that much to do overseas purchasing for you.

19

不要給別人發(fā)一堆淘寶鏈接然后讓對(duì)方給你當(dāng)參謀，一個(gè)個(gè)點(diǎn)開看很麻煩。發(fā)截圖。

Don't send a bunch of Taobao links to someone and ask for their advice. It's really annoying for them to open these links one by one. Send screenshots, please.

20

不要發(fā)“只有我一個(gè)人這么覺得嗎”，大家可能根本不在乎你怎么覺得。

Don't post things like, "Am I really the only one who thinks this way?"

There are not that many people who care about what you think.

21

不用說“有句話不知道當(dāng)講不當(dāng)講”，誰都知道你打算講。

Don't say things like, "I don't know whether I should say this or not."

Everybody can see that you already plan to say it.

22

要取關(guān)就直接取關(guān)，特地留言說“取關(guān)”很幼稚，而且很可能是在高估自己在對(duì)方心里的重要程度。

If you want to unfollow someone, just unfollow them. It's really childish to tell them that you're about to unfollow them. And chances are high that you are overestimating how much you mean to them by doing so.

23

別用合照做頭像，不然不知道哪個(gè)是你。真那么想用那張合照的話，就用成朋友圈封面。

Don't use a group photo as your avatar, or many people won't know which person is you. If you really want to use that photo, use it as the cover for your personal home page.

24

太過私人的東西別發(fā)朋友圈，別人不一定想知道那么多。

Don't post things that are too private on Moments. People may not want to know that much about you.

25

不要什么內(nèi)容都配個(gè)自拍，這會(huì)讓人很想屏蔽。

Don't add your selfies to everything you post. It really makes people want to block your posts.

以上25條，你做到了幾條？

你還有更多的微信社交禮儀要補(bǔ)充嗎？

本文部分中文素材來自GQ實(shí)驗(yàn)室

轉(zhuǎn)眼間微信都已經(jīng)存在8年了，從一開始的“某個(gè)app”，現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)成了生活中必不可少的一環(huán)。

現(xiàn)在出門聯(lián)系父母靠微信，看資訊靠微信，連出婚禮的份子錢都可以靠微信，簡(jiǎn)直就是已經(jīng)活在微信里了。

今天我們?yōu)榇蠹冶P點(diǎn)了25條“第一套全國(guó)微信禮儀基礎(chǔ)考試”，一起來看看自己和朋友都得了多少分吧~

01

不要隨便拉新人進(jìn)私密群，拉之前問一下大家。

Don't suddenly add someone new to a private group chat. Ask other members for their consent first.

02

不要隨便把朋友的微信給陌生人。

Don't share your friends' WeChat accounts with strangers.

03

如果你還有某人的微信消息放著沒回復(fù)，不要在回復(fù)前發(fā)朋友圈。

If you left someone's messages unanswered, don't post anything new on Moments before you answer them.

04

不要在朋友圈發(fā)你和別人的對(duì)話截圖，除非先打馬賽克。

Don't post screenshots of your conversations with others on Moments without blurring out the names and photos of the other people involved.

05

偷拍別人的照片別發(fā)朋友圈。

Don't post any photo that you secretly took of someone.

06

不是特別親密的話，不要發(fā)語音，別人不一定能聽，也不一定想聽。

Don't send voice messages to someone you're not close to. They may not be able to listen and may not want to.

07

不要發(fā)60秒的長(zhǎng)語音，也不要發(fā)OK一類的一秒語音。

Don't send a voice message as long as 60 seconds. And don't send a voice message that contains something as short as an "OK".

08

誰先加的微信，誰就應(yīng)該自報(bào)家門。

If you make the move to add someone else, tell them who you are first.

09

不要給別人很久以前的朋友圈點(diǎn)贊，別人會(huì)覺得你在調(diào)查他。

Don't give a thumbs-up to posts that someone put up long time ago. It makes people feel like you're investigating them.

10

不要連續(xù)點(diǎn)贊別人的一堆朋友圈，別人會(huì)覺得你在例行公事。

Don't give a thumbs-up to a bunch of someone's posts in a row. It makes people feel like you're just doing it as a routine.

11

不熟不要打語音電話，打之前要先問問對(duì)方是不是方便。（視頻通話也一樣）

Don't make voice calls to someone who doesn't know you very well. If you do want to make a call, ask them first if it's convenient to do so. （The same goes for video calls.）

12

不要主動(dòng)加朋友的男女朋友的微信。

Don't ask to add a friend's boyfriend or girlfriend.

13

別發(fā)“在嗎”。那是人家的微信，他不在誰在？有正事直接說。

Don't ask someone, "Are you there?"

It's their WeChat account -- of course they are there. If you have something to say, say it.

14

別給微信運(yùn)動(dòng)墊底的人點(diǎn)贊，那不是贊美，是嘲諷。

Don't give a thumbs-up to someone ranked at the bottom of WeChat Exercise. They won't take it as a compliment or encouragement. They'll consider it a sneer.

15

聚會(huì)不要隨便拍視頻，別人不一定想被拍。

Don't shoot videos of others when you hang out with them. They may not want to be in them.

16

長(zhǎng)期不聯(lián)系的人就不要去問有沒有員工優(yōu)惠了。

If you haven't contacted someone in a long time, don't ask them for employee discounts.

17

P圖不要只P自己，也不要把朋友P得太失真。

Don't only do photo editing on yourself in a group photo. And don't edit other people's photos beyond recognition.

18

不要找不熟的人代購(gòu)。

Don't ask someone who doesn't know you that much to do overseas purchasing for you.

19

不要給別人發(fā)一堆淘寶鏈接然后讓對(duì)方給你當(dāng)參謀，一個(gè)個(gè)點(diǎn)開看很麻煩。發(fā)截圖。

Don't send a bunch of Taobao links to someone and ask for their advice. It's really annoying for them to open these links one by one. Send screenshots, please.

20

不要發(fā)“只有我一個(gè)人這么覺得嗎”，大家可能根本不在乎你怎么覺得。

Don't post things like, "Am I really the only one who thinks this way?"

There are not that many people who care about what you think.

21

不用說“有句話不知道當(dāng)講不當(dāng)講”，誰都知道你打算講。

Don't say things like, "I don't know whether I should say this or not."

Everybody can see that you already plan to say it.

22

要取關(guān)就直接取關(guān)，特地留言說“取關(guān)”很幼稚，而且很可能是在高估自己在對(duì)方心里的重要程度。

If you want to unfollow someone, just unfollow them. It's really childish to tell them that you're about to unfollow them. And chances are high that you are overestimating how much you mean to them by doing so.

23

別用合照做頭像，不然不知道哪個(gè)是你。真那么想用那張合照的話，就用成朋友圈封面。

Don't use a group photo as your avatar, or many people won't know which person is you. If you really want to use that photo, use it as the cover for your personal home page.

24

太過私人的東西別發(fā)朋友圈，別人不一定想知道那么多。

Don't post things that are too private on Moments. People may not want to know that much about you.

25

不要什么內(nèi)容都配個(gè)自拍，這會(huì)讓人很想屏蔽。

Don't add your selfies to everything you post. It really makes people want to block your posts.

以上25條，你做到了幾條？

你還有更多的微信社交禮儀要補(bǔ)充嗎？

本文部分中文素材來自GQ實(shí)驗(yàn)室