Scanning the brains of people in love is also helping to refine sciences grasp of loves various forms. Helen Fisher, a researcher at Rutgers University, and the author of a new book on love*, suggests it comes in three flavours: lust, romantic love and long-term attachment. There is some overlap but, in essence, these are separate phenomena, with their own emotional and motivational systems, and accompanying chemicals. These systems have evolved to enable, respectively, mating, pair-bonding and parenting.

對(duì)戀愛中人們大腦的掃描，也有助于使科學(xué)對(duì)各種形式愛情的領(lǐng)會(huì)變得更為精確。Rutgers 大學(xué)的一位研究人員Helen Fisher，同時(shí)是一本關(guān)于愛情的新書作者，她提出，愛會(huì)以三種滋味出現(xiàn)：欲望，浪漫的戀愛和長(zhǎng)期的附屬關(guān)系。三種滋味的愛情雖有一些重疊，但本質(zhì)上是截然不同的現(xiàn)象，并且具有各自的情緒和激發(fā)系統(tǒng)，以及相伴的體內(nèi)化學(xué)物質(zhì)。這些系統(tǒng)通過進(jìn)化后以分別讓交配，伴侶聯(lián)接和養(yǎng)育子女成為可能。

Lust, of course, involves a craving for sex. Jim Pfaus, a psychologist at Concordia University, in Montreal, says the aftermath of lustful sex is similar to the state induced by taking opiates. A heady mix of chemical changes occurs, including increases in the levels of serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin and endogenous opioids (the bodys natural equivalent of heroin). This may serve many functions, to relax the body, induce pleasure and satiety, and perhaps induce bonding to the very features that one has just experienced all this with, says Dr Pfaus.

首先當(dāng)然是欲望，包括對(duì)性的強(qiáng)烈渴求。蒙特利爾Concordia大學(xué)的一位心理學(xué)家，Jim Pfaus說道，貪欲的性行為其結(jié)果和使用鴉片引起的狀況頗相類似：一種令人興奮的混合化學(xué)變化，包括血液復(fù)合胺(5羥色氨)，催產(chǎn)素，抗利尿激素和內(nèi)非肽(身體內(nèi)的海洛英的天然同等物) 的水平升高。這可能提供許多功能，如放松身體，產(chǎn)生快樂和滿足感, 也可能導(dǎo)致把某些特征與剛才的全部經(jīng)歷聯(lián)結(jié)起來，Pfaus博士補(bǔ)充道。

then there is attraction, or the state of being in love (what is sometimes known as romantic or obsessive love). This is a refinement of mere lust that allows people to home in on a particular mate. This state is characterised by feelings of exhilaration, and intrusive, obsessive thoughts about the object of ones affection. Some researchers suggest this mental state might share neurochemical characteristics with the manic phase of manic depression. Dr Fishers work, however, suggests that the actual behavioural patterns of those in lovesuch as attempting to evoke reciprocal responses in ones loved oneresemble obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).

接下來便是兩性吸引，雙方處于相愛的狀態(tài) (就是我們所知的浪漫的、或強(qiáng)迫性的戀愛)。這是純粹的欲望的升華，它使人們總能回到某個(gè)特定配偶身邊。這種狀態(tài)的特征，是興奮感和對(duì)情感對(duì)象打擾式的和強(qiáng)迫性的思戀。一些研究員提到，這一心理狀態(tài)可能和狂躁?duì)顟B(tài)的躁郁癥有相同的神經(jīng)化學(xué)特征。Fisher博士的工作揭示了戀愛人群真實(shí)的行為模式，比如：試圖喚起被愛者的報(bào)答類似于強(qiáng)迫性混亂癥(OCD)。

That raises the question of whether it is possible to treat this romantic state clinically, as can be done with OCD. The parents of any love-besotted teenager might want to know the answer to that. Dr Fisher suggests it might, indeed, be possible to inhibit feelings of romantic love, but only at its early stages. OCD is characterised by low levels of a chemical called serotonin. Drugs such as Prozac work by keeping serotonin hanging around in the brain for longer than normal, so they might stave off romantic feelings. (This also means that people taking anti-depressants may be jeopardising their ability to fall in love.) But once romantic love begins in earnest, it is one of the strongest drives on Earth. Dr Fisher says it seems to be more powerful than hunger. A little serotonin would be unlikely to stifle it.

這又產(chǎn)生一個(gè)問題，即是否可能和處理OCD一樣，用病理學(xué)方式來處治這種浪漫狀態(tài)。任何沉醉于愛情的青少年，他們的父母可能都想知道相應(yīng)的答案。Fisher博士提出，抑制浪漫愛情的可能性確實(shí)存在，但只能是在感情發(fā)展的最初階段。OCD的特征，是血液中一種叫血液復(fù)合胺(5羥色氨)的含量較低。如果Prozac等藥物讓血液中的復(fù)合氨在大腦中停留得比正常時(shí)間更久，這些藥品就可能阻止浪漫感覺的出現(xiàn)。(這也意味著服用抗抑郁藥物的人們可能正在危及他們彼此相愛能力。)真摯浪漫的愛情一旦開始，它就成為了地球上最強(qiáng)大的動(dòng)力之一。Fisher博士說，這種欲望比食欲強(qiáng)大得多，一點(diǎn)兒血液中的復(fù)合氨不太可能扼殺心中如此強(qiáng)烈的情感。

Wonderful though it is, romantic love is unstablenot a good basis for child-rearing. But the final stage of love, long-term attachment, allows parents to co-operate in raising children. This state, says Dr Fisher, is characterised by feelings of calm, security, social comfort and emotional union.

盡管浪漫的愛情如此奇妙，但它卻并不穩(wěn)定這絕非養(yǎng)兒育女的良好基礎(chǔ)。而愛情的最后階段，即長(zhǎng)期的附屬關(guān)系，卻使父母在養(yǎng)育孩子方面得以精誠(chéng)合作這種狀態(tài)，F(xiàn)isher博士認(rèn)為，它的特征恰恰是平穩(wěn)感、安全感、社會(huì)性的慰籍以及情感的最佳結(jié)合。

Because they are independent, these three systems can work simultaneouslywith dangerous results. As Dr Fisher explains, you can feel deep attachment for a long-term spouse, while you feel romantic love for someone else, while you feel the sex drive in situations unrelated to either partner. This independence means it is possible to love more than one person at a time, a situation that leads to jealousy, adultery and divorcethough also to the possibilities of promiscuity and polygamy, with the likelihood of extra children, and thus a bigger stake in the genetic future, that those behaviours bring. As Dr Fisher observes, We were not built to be happy but to reproduce.

因?yàn)槿齻€(gè)階段的系統(tǒng)彼此獨(dú)立，所以他們可能同時(shí)工作而導(dǎo)致危險(xiǎn)的后果。如Fisher博士解釋的那樣，你可能對(duì)長(zhǎng)期配偶有深深的附屬感，同時(shí)你又因另一人而感受到浪漫的愛情，其間，你又由于第三位異性而產(chǎn)生性驅(qū)動(dòng)力。這種獨(dú)立性意味著你可能同時(shí)愛上多個(gè)異性而導(dǎo)致妒忌、私通和離婚盡管也有可能是亂交、一夫多妻、和隨之而來的額外生育，即最終一個(gè)更大的預(yù)期基因賭注。正如Fisher博士所述，我們不是為快樂卻是為了生殖而被創(chuàng)造的。

the stages of love vary somewhat between the sexes. Lust, for example, is aroused more easily in men by visual stimuli than is the case for women. This is probably why visual pornography is more popular with men. And although both men and women express romantic love with the same intensity, and are attracted to partners who are dependable, kind, healthy, smart and educated, there are some notable differences in their choices. Men are more attracted to youth and beauty, while women are more attracted to money, education and position. When an older, ugly man is seen walking down the road arm-in-arm with a young and beautiful woman, most people assume the man is rich or powerful.

愛情的各階段在性別之間略有差別。例如，與女性相比，男性的欲望更容易被視覺刺激喚醒。這或許就是為什么視覺色情對(duì)男性而言更加流行。雖然男人和女人用同樣的強(qiáng)度表達(dá)浪漫的愛情，也同樣會(huì)被可靠、和藹、健康、聰明和有教養(yǎng)的伴侶所吸引，但不同性別在選擇配偶時(shí)還是有著一些顯著的不同。男性更易被年輕和美貌所吸引，而女性更多會(huì)青睞于金錢、教育和地位。當(dāng)人們看到蒼老而丑陋的男人手挽著年輕美麗的女子漫步道旁，大多數(shù)都會(huì)設(shè)想此公不是腰纏萬貫，便有大權(quán)在握。

Scanning the brains of people in love is also helping to refine sciences grasp of loves various forms. Helen Fisher, a researcher at Rutgers University, and the author of a new book on love*, suggests it comes in three flavours: lust, romantic love and long-term attachment. There is some overlap but, in essence, these are separate phenomena, with their own emotional and motivational systems, and accompanying chemicals. These systems have evolved to enable, respectively, mating, pair-bonding and parenting.

對(duì)戀愛中人們大腦的掃描，也有助于使科學(xué)對(duì)各種形式愛情的領(lǐng)會(huì)變得更為精確。Rutgers 大學(xué)的一位研究人員Helen Fisher，同時(shí)是一本關(guān)于愛情的新書作者，她提出，愛會(huì)以三種滋味出現(xiàn)：欲望，浪漫的戀愛和長(zhǎng)期的附屬關(guān)系。三種滋味的愛情雖有一些重疊，但本質(zhì)上是截然不同的現(xiàn)象，并且具有各自的情緒和激發(fā)系統(tǒng)，以及相伴的體內(nèi)化學(xué)物質(zhì)。這些系統(tǒng)通過進(jìn)化后以分別讓交配，伴侶聯(lián)接和養(yǎng)育子女成為可能。

Lust, of course, involves a craving for sex. Jim Pfaus, a psychologist at Concordia University, in Montreal, says the aftermath of lustful sex is similar to the state induced by taking opiates. A heady mix of chemical changes occurs, including increases in the levels of serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin and endogenous opioids (the bodys natural equivalent of heroin). This may serve many functions, to relax the body, induce pleasure and satiety, and perhaps induce bonding to the very features that one has just experienced all this with, says Dr Pfaus.

首先當(dāng)然是欲望，包括對(duì)性的強(qiáng)烈渴求。蒙特利爾Concordia大學(xué)的一位心理學(xué)家，Jim Pfaus說道，貪欲的性行為其結(jié)果和使用鴉片引起的狀況頗相類似：一種令人興奮的混合化學(xué)變化，包括血液復(fù)合胺(5羥色氨)，催產(chǎn)素，抗利尿激素和內(nèi)非肽(身體內(nèi)的海洛英的天然同等物) 的水平升高。這可能提供許多功能，如放松身體，產(chǎn)生快樂和滿足感, 也可能導(dǎo)致把某些特征與剛才的全部經(jīng)歷聯(lián)結(jié)起來，Pfaus博士補(bǔ)充道。

then there is attraction, or the state of being in love (what is sometimes known as romantic or obsessive love). This is a refinement of mere lust that allows people to home in on a particular mate. This state is characterised by feelings of exhilaration, and intrusive, obsessive thoughts about the object of ones affection. Some researchers suggest this mental state might share neurochemical characteristics with the manic phase of manic depression. Dr Fishers work, however, suggests that the actual behavioural patterns of those in lovesuch as attempting to evoke reciprocal responses in ones loved oneresemble obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).

接下來便是兩性吸引，雙方處于相愛的狀態(tài) (就是我們所知的浪漫的、或強(qiáng)迫性的戀愛)。這是純粹的欲望的升華，它使人們總能回到某個(gè)特定配偶身邊。這種狀態(tài)的特征，是興奮感和對(duì)情感對(duì)象打擾式的和強(qiáng)迫性的思戀。一些研究員提到，這一心理狀態(tài)可能和狂躁?duì)顟B(tài)的躁郁癥有相同的神經(jīng)化學(xué)特征。Fisher博士的工作揭示了戀愛人群真實(shí)的行為模式，比如：試圖喚起被愛者的報(bào)答類似于強(qiáng)迫性混亂癥(OCD)。

That raises the question of whether it is possible to treat this romantic state clinically, as can be done with OCD. The parents of any love-besotted teenager might want to know the answer to that. Dr Fisher suggests it might, indeed, be possible to inhibit feelings of romantic love, but only at its early stages. OCD is characterised by low levels of a chemical called serotonin. Drugs such as Prozac work by keeping serotonin hanging around in the brain for longer than normal, so they might stave off romantic feelings. (This also means that people taking anti-depressants may be jeopardising their ability to fall in love.) But once romantic love begins in earnest, it is one of the strongest drives on Earth. Dr Fisher says it seems to be more powerful than hunger. A little serotonin would be unlikely to stifle it.

這又產(chǎn)生一個(gè)問題，即是否可能和處理OCD一樣，用病理學(xué)方式來處治這種浪漫狀態(tài)。任何沉醉于愛情的青少年，他們的父母可能都想知道相應(yīng)的答案。Fisher博士提出，抑制浪漫愛情的可能性確實(shí)存在，但只能是在感情發(fā)展的最初階段。OCD的特征，是血液中一種叫血液復(fù)合胺(5羥色氨)的含量較低。如果Prozac等藥物讓血液中的復(fù)合氨在大腦中停留得比正常時(shí)間更久，這些藥品就可能阻止浪漫感覺的出現(xiàn)。(這也意味著服用抗抑郁藥物的人們可能正在危及他們彼此相愛能力。)真摯浪漫的愛情一旦開始，它就成為了地球上最強(qiáng)大的動(dòng)力之一。Fisher博士說，這種欲望比食欲強(qiáng)大得多，一點(diǎn)兒血液中的復(fù)合氨不太可能扼殺心中如此強(qiáng)烈的情感。

Wonderful though it is, romantic love is unstablenot a good basis for child-rearing. But the final stage of love, long-term attachment, allows parents to co-operate in raising children. This state, says Dr Fisher, is characterised by feelings of calm, security, social comfort and emotional union.

盡管浪漫的愛情如此奇妙，但它卻并不穩(wěn)定這絕非養(yǎng)兒育女的良好基礎(chǔ)。而愛情的最后階段，即長(zhǎng)期的附屬關(guān)系，卻使父母在養(yǎng)育孩子方面得以精誠(chéng)合作這種狀態(tài)，F(xiàn)isher博士認(rèn)為，它的特征恰恰是平穩(wěn)感、安全感、社會(huì)性的慰籍以及情感的最佳結(jié)合。

Because they are independent, these three systems can work simultaneouslywith dangerous results. As Dr Fisher explains, you can feel deep attachment for a long-term spouse, while you feel romantic love for someone else, while you feel the sex drive in situations unrelated to either partner. This independence means it is possible to love more than one person at a time, a situation that leads to jealousy, adultery and divorcethough also to the possibilities of promiscuity and polygamy, with the likelihood of extra children, and thus a bigger stake in the genetic future, that those behaviours bring. As Dr Fisher observes, We were not built to be happy but to reproduce.

因?yàn)槿齻€(gè)階段的系統(tǒng)彼此獨(dú)立，所以他們可能同時(shí)工作而導(dǎo)致危險(xiǎn)的后果。如Fisher博士解釋的那樣，你可能對(duì)長(zhǎng)期配偶有深深的附屬感，同時(shí)你又因另一人而感受到浪漫的愛情，其間，你又由于第三位異性而產(chǎn)生性驅(qū)動(dòng)力。這種獨(dú)立性意味著你可能同時(shí)愛上多個(gè)異性而導(dǎo)致妒忌、私通和離婚盡管也有可能是亂交、一夫多妻、和隨之而來的額外生育，即最終一個(gè)更大的預(yù)期基因賭注。正如Fisher博士所述，我們不是為快樂卻是為了生殖而被創(chuàng)造的。

the stages of love vary somewhat between the sexes. Lust, for example, is aroused more easily in men by visual stimuli than is the case for women. This is probably why visual pornography is more popular with men. And although both men and women express romantic love with the same intensity, and are attracted to partners who are dependable, kind, healthy, smart and educated, there are some notable differences in their choices. Men are more attracted to youth and beauty, while women are more attracted to money, education and position. When an older, ugly man is seen walking down the road arm-in-arm with a young and beautiful woman, most people assume the man is rich or powerful.

愛情的各階段在性別之間略有差別。例如，與女性相比，男性的欲望更容易被視覺刺激喚醒。這或許就是為什么視覺色情對(duì)男性而言更加流行。雖然男人和女人用同樣的強(qiáng)度表達(dá)浪漫的愛情，也同樣會(huì)被可靠、和藹、健康、聰明和有教養(yǎng)的伴侶所吸引，但不同性別在選擇配偶時(shí)還是有著一些顯著的不同。男性更易被年輕和美貌所吸引，而女性更多會(huì)青睞于金錢、教育和地位。當(dāng)人們看到蒼老而丑陋的男人手挽著年輕美麗的女子漫步道旁，大多數(shù)都會(huì)設(shè)想此公不是腰纏萬貫，便有大權(quán)在握。